Whether you’re facing challenges in your stepfamily or you’re just about to embark on the stepmom life, there are lots of reading materials out there. Here are some books that I’ve found helpful over the years:

It's All Your Fault! 12 Tips For Managing People Who Blame Others For Everything
BIFF For Co-Parents: Your Guide To Difficult Co-Parent Texts, Emails, And Social Media Posts
Don't Alienate The Kids: Raising Resilient Children While Avoiding High-Conflict Divorce

Planners/Other Tools