So that you have the tools to transform your stepmom life - even if you feel totally alone or like an outsider in your own family.
DOES ANY OF THIS SOUND FAMILIAR?
Let's face it. Being a stepmom is HARD. You've finally found the love of your life only to have to deal with a high conflict bio mom or stepkids who don't like you.
You've read books, articles, and tried everything you know to make things work. And yet, it's not getting better.
I feel ya, friend. Other people make it look easy. But for you, it's been anything but. You thought that the hard part was planning the wedding, but that was just the beginning.
Your spouse isn't supporting you - or doesn't know how to. You're at a loss about how to bring the family together and don't have the time or money for years of therapy. You feel like no one gets you and you need help NOW.
Girl, you are NOT alone. But what if you KNEW you had the skills to deal with all of the things?
I have helped thousands of stepmoms just like you lower their stress and rediscover the joy in their blended family lives.
I'm a Certified Stepparent Coach, host of The Stepmom Diaries podcast, owner of This Custom Life, and co-owner/Editor-In-Chief of Stepfamily Magazine.
AND I'VE BEEN EXACTLY WHERE YOU ARE.
When I got married, I was certain my new instant family would be the stuff of Rockwell paintings. Let's just say that’s not exactly how it went.
I was totally unprepared for all the complicated blended family dynamics. And how alone I felt.
I thought I was a failure.
But through a lot of research and hard work, I realized I had the power to change my dynamic and discovered how to thrive. I'm now happy with the role I play and my relationship with my husband is better than ever.
My system isn't a silver bullet solution that will instantly fix all your problems. But it's probably the next best thing: I'll walk you through my step-by-step process to achieve your own happily ever after.
Come On, Let's Do This!
The BLENDED Family Formula is a one-of-a-kind course just for stepmoms, designed to help you learn the skills and strategies to confidently tackle all of your stepmom challenges. Every stepmom deserves to live out her purpose, and the people who depend on her most deserve to get her at her best.
If you are a stepmom wondering how to overcome the overwhelm as you feel like you're failing a little bit at everything, or if you feel guilty for wanting more and you're ready for another way . . .
This is an opportunity that I promise you will not want to miss.
WEEK ONE
STEPMOM STRATEGIES
I'll show you how to use my proprietary blueprint to (re)build your foundation and values. And you'll formulate your personal Stepmom Anchor Statement to guide your journey.
WEEK TWO
ENGAGE WITH YOUR STEPKIDS
After this week, you'll know how to establish a bond with your stepchildren and how to take a step back when you need to. And you'll learn how to approach conflict and discipline so you can reduce your stress.
WEEK THREE
FAMILY FOUNDATION
You'll work this week on a plan to, with your spouse and family, develop a Family Anchor Statement, examine your family values, and establish house rules so that you can set up a framework for success.
WEEK FOUR
YOUR RELATIONSHIP
After this week, you'll know who you and your partner are at a more meaningful level so you can build a deeper foundation and parenting partnership.
WEEK FIVE
THE EX-FILES
This week, you'll develop strategies for dealing with your partner's ex, especially if she's high-conflict. And you'll work with your partner to assess which type of coparenting is best for you.
WEEK SIX
STEPMOM SELF-CARE
You'll finish up the course by focusing on YOU as you create a complete stepmom self-care plan that will allow you to finally reclaim your time and energy as you achieve that calm mindset you've been wanting!
WEEK ONE
STEPMOM STRATEGIES
I'll show you how to use my proprietary blueprint to (re)build your foundation and values. And you'll formulate your personal Stepmom Anchor Statement to guide your journey.
WEEK TWO
ENGAGE WITH YOUR STEPKIDS
After this week, you'll know how to establish a bond with your stepchildren and how to take a step back when you need to. And you'll learn how to approach conflict and discipline so you can reduce your stress.
WEEK THREE
FAMILY FOUNDATION
You'll work this week on a plan to, with your spouse and family, develop a Family Anchor Statement, examine your family values, and establish house rules so that you can set up a framework for success.
WEEK FOUR
YOUR RELATIONSHIP
After this week, you'll know who you and your partner are at a more meaningful level so you can build a deeper foundation and parenting partnership.
WEEK FIVE
THE EX-FILES
This week, you'll develop strategies for dealing with your partner's ex, especially if she's high-conflict. And you'll work with your partner to assess which type of coparenting is best for you.
WEEK SIX
STEPMOM SELF-CARE
You'll finish up the course by focusing on YOU as you create a complete stepmom self-care plan that will allow you to finally reclaim your time and energy as you achieve that calm mindset you've been wanting!
What if you could unclench your stomach when the kids come over or the ex calls with a new demand?
WHEN YOU ENROLL, YOU'LL UNLOCK A PRINTABLE WORKBOOK SO YOU CAN IMPLEMENT EVERYTHING YOU LEARN. TO INCLUDE EXERCISES AND WORKSHEETS TO HELP YOU:
DEVELOP YOUR STEPMOM STRATEGY
You'll feel more confident after you use my blueprint to analyze your values and formulate your personal Stepmom Anchor Statement to guide your journey.
BUILD YOUR FAMILY FOUNDATION
You'll use my effective formula to develop a family mission statement and house rules so that you can set up a framework for success.
SET BOUNDARIES
You'll receive practical guidance on why boundaries are important for stepmothers, how to get your spouse's buy-in, and how to implement them.
BOND WITH YOUR STEPCHILDREN
I'll teach you how to establish a bond with your stepchildren so that you can reduce your stress around discipline and conflict.
COPARENT WITH THE EX
I'll walk you through how to determine which type of coparenting is best for you and give you practical strategies for how to deal with your partner's ex, even when they're high-conflict.
PRIORITIZE SELF-CARE
You'll receive a step-by-step blueprint to assess your current self-care needs and build a complete self-care plan so that you can take control of your time and energy.
STRENGTHEN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
You'll learn who you and your husband are at a more meaningful level so you can build a deeper foundation and parenting partnership.
WHEN YOU ENROLL, YOU'LL UNLOCK A PRINTABLE WORKBOOK SO YOU CAN IMPLEMENT EVERYTHING YOU LEARN, INCLUDING EXERCISES AND WORKSHEETS TO HELP YOU:
DEVELOP YOUR STEPMOM STRATEGY
You'll feel more confident after you use my blueprint to analyze your values and formulate your personal Stepmom Anchor Statement to guide your journey.
BUILD YOUR FAMILY FOUNDATION
You'll use my effective formula to develop a family mission statement and house rules so that you can set up a framework for success.
SET BOUNDARIES
You'll receive practical guidance on why boundaries are important for stepmothers, how to get your spouse's buy-in, and how to implement them.
BOND WITH YOUR STEPCHILDREN
I'll teach you how to establish a bond with your stepchildren so that you can reduce your stress around discipline and conflict.
COPARENT WITH THE EX
I'll walk you through how to determine which type of coparenting is best for you and give you practical strategies for how to deal with your partner's ex, even when they're high-conflict.
PRIORITIZE SELF-CARE
You'll receive a step-by-step blueprint to assess your current self-care needs and build a complete self-care plan so that you can take control of your time and energy.
STRENGTHEN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
You'll learn who you and your husband are at a more meaningful level so you can build a deeper foundation and parenting partnership.
THE SELF-PACED PROGRAM
This is the core program, with all the resources you need to get started. Here's exactly what's included:
Total value: $1585
Today's Price: $197
(~85% off!)
I KNOW YOU'RE BUSY.
YOU DON'T HAVE TIME TO WASTE ON USELESS THEORIES THAT ARE HARD TO FIGURE OUT.
SO I'VE MADE THIS COURSE SUPER EASY TO USE, WITH:
The course is broken up into digestible lessons that walk you through the formula and teach you how to apply it to your specific family dynamic.
Being a stepmom can be lonely, can't it?! I structured the course not just for you to learn, but so that you also will meet and get support not just from me but from all of the stepmom students.
A WORKBOOK TO HELP YOU IMPLEMENT WHAT YOU LEARN
Videos don't mean much if you don't have some help to put the lessons to work in your life. Which is where my 75-page printable workbook comes in. It's chock full of exercises, additional tips, and opportunities for reflection.
I KNOW YOU'RE BUSY.
YOU DON'T HAVE TIME TO WASTE ON USELESS THEORIES THAT ARE HARD TO FIGURE OUT.
SO I'VE MADE THIS COURSE SUPER EASY TO USE, WITH:
The course is broken up into digestible lessons that walk you through the formula and teach you how to apply it to your specific family dynamic.
Being a stepmom can be lonely, can't it?! I structured the course not just for you to learn, but so that you also will meet and get support not just from me but from all of the stepmom students.
A WORKBOOK TO HELP YOU IMPLEMENT WHAT YOU LEARN
Videos don't mean much if you don't have some help to put the lessons to work in your life. Which is where my 75-page printable workbook comes in. It's chock full of exercises, additional tips, and opportunities for reflection.
The course includes weekly lessons to dive deep into my detailed, 7 step formula for stepmom success. And as a bonus, I'm including a companion PDF workbook, lifetime access to the materials, and a students-only private Facebook community.
If you can spare just one hour a week for six weeks, you can totally fit the BLENDED Family Formula into your schedule.
The modules are split into easily digestible lesson videos, so you can easily watch them at your convenience.
I know you are trying to balance all the things. So I've designed the course so that you can squeeze in lessons while you're working, going to school, or taking care of your family.
You can access the materials 24 hours a day, so you can make it work for your schedule.
When you sign up, you'll receive your enrollment confirmation within 30 minutes, along with your access to the membership portal, which is where you’ll have instant access to the introductory course materials so that you can get started right away.
A new module will be released in the portal each week for six weeks after that. This will allow you to implement the lessons each week without being tempted to skip ahead. The course was designed to be completed in order and each module builds on the one before.
The lessons are recorded and can be done at your own pace.
I totally get it. I know price is top of mine for many of us as we watch gas and food prices rise. That's why I've made it a priority to give you so much value here. If you were to pay for all of these resources separately, you'd spend hundreds and hundreds of dollars more than what the course costs.
HOW WILL I RECEIVE THE MATERIALS AND COURSE?
Everything in the course is accessible online and will be delivered digitally, via the email address you provide at checkout.
I've designed the workbook and bonus guides and tools to be printable so that you can have hard copies if you'd like.
And don't worry - if you've never taken a course online or don't feel very tech savvy, there will be plenty of instructions and hand-holding!
HOW LONG WILL IT TAKE ME TO START SEEING RESULTS?
The course itself is meant to be taken over a period of six weeks. However, you can proceed at your own pace because you'll have the lessons and tools that you can begin to use -and see results from- immediately!
Here's the thing. Success in the BLENDED Family Formula course depends on one thing: you taking action. Instead of just listening and watching, you'll need to take the time to apply what you’re learning and complete your course assignments - which involve written exercises and having (sometimes difficult) conversations with your partner and family.
The bottom line? As much as I want you to have your happily ever after, I don't have a magic wand to create it for you. You need to do the work.
BUT please know that I'm 100% dedicated to your success and I will be there to support you the entire way. I'm available for questions in the Facebook group and happy to engage with your success!
Regardless of where you are right now in your stepmom journey, the BLENDED Family Formula course can help. It provides a comprehensive step-by-step plan to not just help you take action, but to take the right action because you understand the reasons behind it. You'll approach your journey with intention and have the tools to address whatever you face in the future.
The BLENDED Family Formula is for you if:
The BLENDED Family Formula is NOT for you if:
This program works, but only if you do. If you're committed to following the process, you WILL see results.
There's no one-size-fits-all solution for stepmom challenges. But the BLENDED Family Formula will give you a comprehensive, strategic blueprint so you know how to approach your journey more intentionally.
I'll give you the framework and the tools to address whatever you're facing. My successful students have all been willing to show up, get vulnerable, and put the work in.
We've got a 14-day money-back guarantee. If you can show me you've done the work and still feel this isn't for you, I'll refund your money.
The BLENDED Family Formula is definitely NOT just for new stepmoms! I've designed the program to meet you where you are, whether you are a brand new stepmom, and about-to-be stepmom, or a super seasoned stepmom.
Wherever you are, you'll find the tools you need in this program.
I'm standing by and am happy to answer questions you have! Just shoot me an email at info@thiscustomlife.com and I'll be happy to touch base with you!
I believe so much in this course, that I'm offering a money-back guarantee within 14 days if you don't feel like the Formula will work for you. Just show me you've done all the work and tell me why you don't think it will work and I'll give you a refund.
You're not the wicked stepmother. And YOU DESERVE to be happy, too!
One more time, here's EVERYTHING you get when you sign up for the The BLENDED Family Formula!
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