Let's be real. Every family is different and has its own struggles. But if you give me six weeks, I'll give you the tools you need to love your stepmom life - even if right now you feel like an outsider in your own family.
This exclusive opportunity ends in:
Let's face it. Being a stepmom is HARD. There's nothing more frustrating than facing down a high conflict bio mom or stepchildren who don't like you, only to feel unsure about how to deal with them. And there's nothing more disheartening than finally finding the love of your life only to feel like your blended family will never get on track.
You know that you love your spouse and that the two of you should be a team. You've read books, articles, and tried everything you know to make things work. And yet, it's not getting better.
Other people make it look easy. But for you, it's been anything but. You thought that the hard part was going to be getting to know the kids and making it through the wedding, but as it turns out, that was only just the beginning. And now you feel like you must be missing something.
You feel like your spouse isn't supporting you or doesn't know how to. You're at a loss about how to bring the family together and don't have the time or money for years of therapy. You feel like no one gets you and you need help NOW.
Girl, you are NOT alone.
But the truth is that understanding your role and having the right tools is a game-changer. Whether you are a new or seasoned stepmom, learning how to stepmom with intention will give you confidence in your abilities, and even the ability to find time for yourself.
What if you had a way to make sure you got it right?
And my proven methods and support will help you find your happily ever after.
Trust me, I’ve been where you are.
When I got married, I was certain my new instant family would be the stuff of Rockwell paintings. Let's just say that’s not exactly how it went. I adore my family, but I was totally unprepared for all the complicated blended family dynamics.
While no family is a perfect fairy tale, you’re far from the evil stepmother.
I'm a Certified Stepparent Coach, host of The Stepmom Diaries podcast, and owner of This Custom Life. I have helped thousands of stepmoms lower their stress and find joy in their blended family lives. And I want to help you, too.
My system for success works and will help you build the confidence and skills to achieve your own happily ever after.
Come on, let's do this!
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The BLENDED Family Formula is a one-of-a-kind course just for stepmoms, designed to help you learn the skills and strategies to confidently tackle all of your stepmom challenges. Every stepmom deserves to live out her purpose, and the people who depend on her most deserve to get her at her best.
If you are a stepmom wondering how to overcome the overwhelm as you feel like you're failing a little bit at everything, or if you feel guilty for wanting more and you're ready for another way . . .
The next session starts Monday, September 13th. This is an opportunity that I promise you will not want to miss.
You'll use our proprietary blueprint to (re)build your foundation and values. And you'll formulate your personal Stepmom Anchor Statement to guide your journey.
ENGAGE WITH YOUR STEPKIDS
After this module, you'll know how to establish a bond with your stepchildren and reduce your stress when you discipline or deal with conflict.
You'll develop your family Anchor Statement, examine your family values, and establish house rules so that you can set up a framework for success.
After this module, you'll know who you and your husband are at a more meaningful level so you can build a deeper foundation and parenting partnership.
At the end of this module, you'll be able to work with your partner to assess which type of coparenting is best for you and to develop strategies for dealing with a high-conflict ex.
You'll finish up the course with a complete stepmom self-care plan so that you can reclaim your time and energy.
WHAT WILL YOU LEARN?
A blueprint to analyze your values and formulate your personal Stepmom Anchor Statement to guide your journey.
Forms that will help you coordinate between houses, including chore charts, cell phone and driving contracts, social media guidelines, and packing lists.
A formula to develop a family mission statement and house rules so that you can set up a framework for success.
A complete guide to why boundaries are important for stepmothers, how to get your spouse's buy-in, and how to implement them.
BONDING WITH YOUR STEPCHILDREN
We'll teach you how to establish a bond with your stepchildren so that you can reduce your stress when you discipline or deal with conflict.
COPARENTING WITH THE EX
A guide to which type of coparenting is best for you and strategies for dealing with a high-conflict ex.
A step-by-step blueprint to build a complete self-care plan so that you can take control of your time and energy.
Tools that will help you learn who you and your husband are at a more meaningful level so you can build a deeper foundation and parenting partnership.
When you enroll, you'll receive six weeks of live interactive classes that will give you the roadmap to stepmom with intention, with confidence, and with all the tools you need to create the blended family life you love. But that's not it. You'll also get:
BONUS #1: E-Guide To Dealing With Your Partner's Ex ($39 value)
You'll receive an E-Guide with tips, tricks, and exercises so you can start learning how to relate to your partner's ex, even when she's high conflict.
BONUS #2: Guided Meditation with Magriet Steyn ($29 value)
You'll receive a fifteen-minute guided meditation video with Magriet Steyn, of Stepfamily Harmony. It's guaranteed to bring you a sense of calm so you can focus on all the stepmom things.
If you think the BLENDED Family Formula sounds amazing, but you're looking for some additional help, this may be for you. In addition to the enormous value in the core program, you'll receive:
In addition to the curriculum in the core program, you'll receive additional help in implementing the lessons every step of the way. This includes:
BONUS #1 GROUP COACHING ($169 value)
In addition to the BLENDED Family Formula workbook, you'll also get two small group coaching sessions with me. These are invaluable opportunities to get advice and feedback on the program implementation.
BONUS #2: SELF-CARE ASSESSMENT AND SELF-CARE PLAN BLUEPRINT ($68 value)
You'll receive my proprietary self-care assessment so that you can figure out what areas you need to focus on as you work to make time for yourself. AND you'll receive my "20 Minutes To Your Self-Care Plan," which will give you a blueprint to create your own self-care plan in less than half an hour.
BONUS #3: GET-TO-KNOW-YOU CARDS TO USE WITH YOUR STEPCHILDREN ($13 value)
You'll receive printable, interactive icebreaker cards to inspire you on ways to get to know and bond with your stepchildren better.
YOU'RE GUARANTEED TO SEE A DIFFERENCE
I believe so much in this course, that I'm offering a money-back guarantee within 14 days if you don't feel like the Formula will work for you. Just show me you've done all the work and tell me why you don't think it will work and I'll give you a refund.
THE CORE PROGRAM
(More Than 60% Discount)
This is the core program, with all the resources you need. Here's exactly what's included:
THE GOLD PROGRAM
(~ 65% Discount)
This program has everything you need to succeed. Here's exactly what's included:
The course includes 7 Modules of pre-recorded lessons (totaling about 8 hours) to dive deep into our detailed, 7 step formula for stepmom success.
As a bonus, you'll also receive a companion PDF 75-page workbook.
And you'll get personal access to me at least once a month in live discussions in our Facebook group.
In the BLENDED Family Formula, you'll learn:
I totally get it. That's why I've given you so much value here. If you were to pay for all of these resources separately, you'd spend hundreds of dollars more than what the course costs. I actually think you can't afford NOT to join this course.
The BLENDED Family Formula is for you if:
There's no one-size-fits-all solution for stepmom challenges. But the BLENDED Family Formula will help you approach your journey more intentionally and will give you the tools to address whatever you're facing.
We've got a 14-day money-back guarantee. If you can show me you've done the work and still feel this isn't for you, I'll refund your money.
You'll be able to access the course orientation and Module1 immediately. Then you'll receive a new module each week, which will allow you time to implement what you're learning.