In just six weeks, the BLENDED Family Formula course will give you the tools to transform your stepmom life into one you love - even if it feels like no one understands what you're going through.
THE DOORS OPEN ONCE A YEAR - AND THAT'S IT. THIS EXCLUSIVE OPPORTUNITY ENDS IN:
DOES ANY OF THIS SOUND FAMILIAR?
Let's face it. Being a stepmom is HARD. You've finally found the love of your life only to have to deal with a high conflict bio mom or stepkids who don't like you.
You've read books, articles, and tried everything you know to make things work. And yet, it's not getting better.
I feel ya, friend. Other people make it look easy. But for you, it's been anything but. You thought that the hard part was planning the wedding, but that was just the beginning.
Your spouse isn't supporting you - or doesn't know how to. You're at a loss about how to bring the family together and don't have the time or money for years of therapy. You feel like no one gets you and you need help NOW.
Girl, you are NOT alone. But what if you KNEW you had the skills to deal with all of the things?
I have helped thousands of stepmoms just like you lower their stress and rediscover the joy in their blended family lives.
I'm a Certified Stepparent Coach, host of The Stepmom Diaries podcast, owner of This Custom Life and co-owner/Editor-In-Chief of Stepfamily Magazine.
AND I'VE BEEN EXACTLY WHERE YOU ARE.
When I got married, I was certain my new instant family would be the stuff of Rockwell paintings. Let's just say that’s not exactly how it went.
I was totally unprepared for all the complicated blended family dynamics. And how alone I felt.
I thought I was a failure.
But through a lot of research and hard work, I realized I had the power to change my dynamic and discovered how to thrive. I'm now happy with the role I play and my relationship with my husband is better than ever.
My system isn't a silver bullet solution that will instantly fix all your problems. But it's probably the next best thing: I'll take you through my step-by-step process to achieve your own happily ever after.
Come On, Let's Do This!
The BLENDED Family Formula is a one-of-a-kind course just for stepmoms, designed to help you learn the skills and strategies to confidently tackle all of your stepmom challenges. Every stepmom deserves to live out her purpose, and the people who depend on her most deserve to get her at her best.
If you are a stepmom wondering how to overcome the overwhelm as you feel like you're failing a little bit at everything, or if you feel guilty for wanting more and you're ready for another way . . .
This is an opportunity that I promise you will not want to miss.
WEEK ONE
STEPMOM STRATEGIES
I'll show you how to use my proprietary blueprint to (re)build your foundation and values. And you'll formulate your personal Stepmom Anchor Statement to guide your journey.
WEEK TWO
ENGAGE WITH YOUR STEPKIDS
After this week, you'll know how to establish a bond with your stepchildren and how to take a step back when you need to. And you'll learn how to approach conflict and discipline so you can reduce your stress.
WEEK THREE
FAMILY FOUNDATION
You'll work this week on a plan to, with your spouse and family, develop a Family Anchor Statement, examine your family values, and establish house rules so that you can set up a framework for success.
WEEK FOUR
YOUR RELATIONSHIP
After this week, you'll know who you and your partner are at a more meaningful level so you can build a deeper foundation and parenting partnership.
WEEK FIVE
THE EX-FILES
This week, you'll develop strategies for dealing with your partner's ex, especially if she's high-conflict. And you'll work with your partner to assess which type of coparenting is best for you.
WEEK SIX
STEPMOM SELF-CARE
You'll finish up the course by focusing on YOU as you create a complete stepmom self-care plan that will allow you to finally reclaim your time and energy as you achieve that calm mindset you've been wanting!
WEEK ONE
STEPMOM STRATEGIES
I'll show you how to use my proprietary blueprint to (re)build your foundation and values. And you'll formulate your personal Stepmom Anchor Statement to guide your journey.
WEEK TWO
ENGAGE WITH YOUR STEPKIDS
After this week, you'll know how to establish a bond with your stepchildren and how to take a step back when you need to. And you'll learn how to approach conflict and discipline so you can reduce your stress.
WEEK THREE
FAMILY FOUNDATION
You'll work this week on a plan to, with your spouse and family, develop a Family Anchor Statement, examine your family values, and establish house rules so that you can set up a framework for success.
WEEK FOUR
YOUR RELATIONSHIP
After this week, you'll know who you and your partner are at a more meaningful level so you can build a deeper foundation and parenting partnership.
WEEK FIVE
THE EX-FILES
This week, you'll develop strategies for dealing with your partner's ex, especially if she's high-conflict. And you'll work with your partner to assess which type of coparenting is best for you.
WEEK SIX
STEPMOM SELF-CARE
You'll finish up the course by focusing on YOU as you create a complete stepmom self-care plan that will allow you to finally reclaim your time and energy as you achieve that calm mindset you've been wanting!
What if you could unclench your stomach when the kids come over or the ex calls with a new demand?
WHEN YOU ENROLL, YOU'LL UNLOCK ACCESS TO THE BEST RESOURCES TO HELP YOU IMPLEMENT ALL THE LESSONS:
DEVELOP YOUR STEPMOM STRATEGY
You'll feel more confident after you use my blueprint to analyze your values and formulate your personal Stepmom Anchor Statement to guide your journey.
GET ORGANIZED
You'll feel more organized when you have forms that will help you coordinate between houses, including chore charts, cell phone and driving contracts, social media guidelines, and packing lists. (available with Gold Program)
BUILD YOUR FAMILY FOUNDATION
You'll use my effective formula to develop a family mission statement and house rules so that you can set up a framework for success.
SET BOUNDARIES
You'll receive practical guidance on why boundaries are important for stepmothers, how to get your spouse's buy-in, and how to implement them.
BOND WITH YOUR STEPCHILDREN
I'll teach you how to establish a bond with your stepchildren so that you can reduce your stress around discipline and conflict.
COPARENT WITH THE EX
I'll walk you through how to determine which type of coparenting is best for you and give you practical strategies for how to deal with your partner's ex, even when they're high-conflict.
PRIORITIZE SELF-CARE
You'll receive a step-by-step blueprint to assess your current self-care needs and build a complete self-care plan so that you can take control of your time and energy.
STRENGTHEN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
You'll learn who you and your husband are at a more meaningful level so you can build a deeper foundation and parenting partnership.
WHEN YOU ENROLL, YOU'LL UNLOCK ACCESS TO THE BEST RESOURCES TO HELP YOU IMPLEMENT ALL THE LESSONS:
DEVELOP YOUR STEPMOM STRATEGY
You'll feel more confident after you use my blueprint to analyze your values and formulate your personal Stepmom Anchor Statement to guide your journey.
GET ORGANIZED
You'll feel more organized when you have forms that will help you coordinate between houses, including chore charts, cell phone and driving contracts, social media guidelines, and packing lists. (available with Gold Program)
BUILD YOUR FAMILY FOUNDATION
You'll use my effective formula to develop a family mission statement and house rules so that you can set up a framework for success.
SET BOUNDARIES
You'll receive practical guidance on why boundaries are important for stepmothers, how to get your spouse's buy-in, and how to implement them.
BOND WITH YOUR STEPCHILDREN
I'll teach you how to establish a bond with your stepchildren so that you can reduce your stress around discipline and conflict.
COPARENT WITH THE EX
I'll walk you through how to determine which type of coparenting is best for you and give you practical strategies for how to deal with your partner's ex, even when they're high-conflict.
PRIORITIZE SELF-CARE
You'll receive a step-by-step blueprint to assess your current self-care needs and build a complete self-care plan so that you can take control of your time and energy.
STRENGTHEN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
You'll learn who you and your husband are at a more meaningful level so you can build a deeper foundation and parenting partnership.
THE STARTER PROGRAM
All The Basics!
This is the core program, with all the resources you need to get started. Here's exactly what's included:
Total value: $1286
PLUS FAST ACTION BONUS
Total value: $1483
Today's Price: $297
(80% off!)
THE GOLD PROGRAM
Best Value!
This is the best value, offering an upgrade from the Starter Program with some truly amazing bonuses.
It includes everything in the Starter Program, PLUS:
Total value: $1684
PLUS FAST ACTION BONUS
Total value: $1881
Today's Price: $497
(more than 75% off!)
THE VIP EXPERIENCE
All The Bells
And Whistles!
This is an exclusive opportunity with limited spots available. The VIP Experience will provide you with personal support even after the course concludes.
It includes everything in the Starter and Gold Programs, PLUS:
Total value: $2416
PLUS FAST ACTION BONUS
Total value: $2613
Today's price: $997
(more than 60% off!)
THE STARTER PROGRAM INCLUDES:
The Starter Program is perfect for you if:
THE GOLD PROGRAM INCLUDES:
PLUS . . .
You're going to love the bonuses that come with the Gold Program!
The Stepmom LIFE Toolkit ($99 Value)
The Stepmom LIFE Toolkit includes printable tools, checklists, and worksheets to help you with day-to-day challenges you face.
Included in the Toolkit:
6 Weeks Of Live Q&A Sessions ($299 value)
THE VIP EXPERIENCE INCLUDES:
PLUS:
With the VIP Experience, you'll get additional specialized bonuses designed to help you fully optimize the BLENDED Family Formula!
ADDITIONAL SIX WEEKS OF LIVE Q&A SESSIONS ($299)
Your hand-holding doesn't stop when the course ends!
By sticking with me for an additional six weeks, you'll:
ONE-ON-ONE COACHING SESSION ($179)
In our 1:1 session, I'll help you:
A PRIVATE PODCAST FEED ($199)
A brand new feature, you can now get your lessons in an audio format through:
FROM SNARKY TO CIVIL (Or Something Like It) ($39)
Hot off the presses, my brand new printable guide to dealing with your partner's ex, even when it feels impossible!
I'll help you develop the skills to:
THE STEPMOM'S GRATITUDE JOURNAL DELIVERED TO YOUR DOOR ($16)
A physical copy of my popular book, The Stepmom's Gratitude Journal, delivered straight to your doorstep so you can kickstart your self-care. The Journal features:
I KNOW YOU'RE BUSY.
YOU DON'T HAVE TIME TO WASTE ON USELESS SYSTEMS THAT ARE HARD TO FIGURE OUT.
SO I'VE MADE THIS COURSE SUPER EASY TO USE, WITH:
The course is broken up into digestible lessons that walk you through the formula and teach you how to apply it to your specific family dynamic.
I make accountability FUN! When you do your weekly homework and participate in the student Facebook group, you'll be entered into drawings to win fun prizes at the end of the course!
Being a stepmom can be lonely, can't it?! I structured the course not just for you to learn, but so that you also will meet and get support not just from me but from all of the stepmom students.
(And if you're in the Gold or VIP Program, I'll ALSO see you weekly so I can hold your hand (virtually, of course) and cheer you on, every step of the way.
A WORKBOOK TO HELP YOU IMPLEMENT WHAT YOU LEARN
Videos don't mean much if you don't have some help to put the lessons to work in your life. Which is where my 75-page printable workbook comes in. It's chock full of exercises, additional tips, and opportunities for reflection.
I KNOW YOU'RE BUSY.
YOU DON'T HAVE TIME TO WASTE ON USELESS SYSTEMS THAT ARE HARD TO FIGURE OUT.
SO I'VE MADE THIS COURSE SUPER EASY TO USE, WITH:
The course is broken up into digestible lessons that walk you through the formula and teach you how to apply it to your specific family dynamic.
I make accountability FUN! When you do your weekly homework and participate in the student Facebook group, you'll be entered into drawings to win fun prizes at the end of the course!
Being a stepmom can be lonely, can't it?! I structured the course not just for you to learn, but so that you also will meet and get support not just from me but from all of the stepmom students.
(And if you're in the Gold or VIP Program, I'll ALSO see you weekly so I can hold your hand (virtually, of course) and cheer you on, every step of the way.
A WORKBOOK TO HELP YOU IMPLEMENT WHAT YOU LEARN
Videos don't mean much if you don't have some help to put the lessons to work in your life. Which is where my 75-page printable workbook comes in. It's chock full of exercises, additional tips, and opportunities for reflection.
The course includes weekly lessons to dive deep into my detailed, 7 step formula for stepmom success. And as a bonus, I'm including a companion PDF workbook, lifetime access to the materials, and a students-only private Facebook community.
If you can spare just one hour a week for six weeks, you can totally fit the BLENDED Family Formula into your schedule.
The modules are split into easily digestible lesson videos, so you can easily watch them at your convenience.
I know you are trying to balance all the things. So I've designed the course so that you can squeeze in lessons while you're working, going to school, or taking care of your family.
You can access the materials 24 hours a day, so you can make it work for your schedule. And if you're in the Gold Program or VIP Experience, I'll mix up the times for my live Q & As so that the times will work for a variety of schedules.
Enrollment for the BLENDED Family Formula will close Friday, April 8th at midnight EST.
When you sign up, you'll receive your enrollment confirmation within 30 minutes, along with your access to the membership portal, which is where you’ll have instant access to the introductory course materials so that you can get started right away.
A new module will be released in the portal each week for six weeks after that. This will allow you to implement the lessons each week without being tempted to skip ahead. The course was designed to be completed in order and each module builds on the one before.
The lessons are recorded and can be done at your own pace.
For my Gold Program & VIP Experience students, there will also be a weekly live Q&A session, and the schedule will be available in the course portal so that you can get those on your calendar as early as possible.
I totally get it. That's why I've made it a priority to give you so much value here. If you were to pay for all of these resources separately, you'd spend hundreds and hundreds of dollars more than what the course costs.
I know price is top of mind for so many of us as we watch gas and food prices rise. That's one of the reasons I'm offering three tiers of the course at three different price points. And why, for the first time ever, I'm offering payment plans.
IS IT WORTH IT TO UPGRADE TO GOLD? WHAT ABOUT THE VIP EXPERIENCE?
100% YES, YES, and YES!
The Gold Program includes more than $400 in additional support and bonuses that will give you personal support and help you work through the materials faster, with more confidence.
You'll get access to 6 weeks of live Q&A's to give you real-time help as you implement the assignments.
Plus, you'll get access to my brand-new Stepmom Life Toolkit (a $99 value), not available anywhere else. The Toolkit will give you all the practical tools to help you succeed. Things like packing lists to help you transition the kids between houses, chore charts, printable meal planners, social media and driving contracts for teens, custody calendars, and much, much more! (Trust me - it is sooooo good!)
The VIP Experience includes everything you’ll get in the Gold Program, but takes the experience up a notch by providing an additional six weeks of personal support, plus my brand new From Snarky To Civil (or something like it) guide to dealing with your partner's ex.
And you'll get a copy of my popular book, The Stepmom's Gratitude Journal, delivered directly to your doorstep!
If you’re the kind of person who thrives with more accountability and hands-on learning, then both the Gold Program and the VIP Experience are the best way to turbocharge your progress.
HOW WILL I RECEIVE THE MATERIALS AND COURSE?
Everything in the course is accessible online and will be delivered digitally, via the email address you provide at checkout (unless you're in the VIP Experience, where you'll get The Stepmom's Gratitude Journal delivered to your doorstep).
I've designed the workbook and bonus guides and tools to be printable so that you can have hard copies if you'd like.
And don't worry - if you've never taken a course online or don't feel very tech savvy, there will be plenty of instructions and hand-holding!
Here's the thing. Success in the BLENDED Family Formula course depends on one thing: you taking action. Instead of just listening and watching, you'll need to take the time to apply what you’re learning and complete your course assignments - which involve written exercises and having (sometimes difficult) conversations with your partner and family.
The bottom line? As much as I want you to have your happily ever after, I don't have a magic wand to create it for you. You need to do the work.
BUT please know that I'm 100% dedicated to your success and I will be there to support you the entire way. I'm available for questions in the Facebook group - and if you purchase the Gold Program or VIP Experience, I’m available to you personally.
Regardless of where you are right now in your stepmom journey, the BLENDED Family Formula course can help. It provides a comprehensive step-by-step plan to not just help you take action, but to take the right action because you understand the reasons behind it. You'll approach your journey with intention and have the tools to address whatever you face in the future.
The BLENDED Family Formula is for you if:
The BLENDED Family Formula is NOT for you if:
This program works, but only if you do. If you're committed to following the process, you WILL see results.
There's no one-size-fits-all solution for stepmom challenges. But the BLENDED Family Formula will give you a comprehensive, strategic blueprint so you know how to approach your journey more intentionally.
I'll give you the framework and the tools to address whatever you're facing. My successful students have all been willing to show up, get vulnerable, and put the work in.
The level of support you'll receive in the BLENDED Family Formula will really depend on the enrollment option that you choose.
The Starter Program students will work largely on your own, but you receive a weekly email related to that week's lesson with tips, tricks, and frequently asked questions. You'll also be able to submit questions via the student Facebook group.
Gold Program & VIP Experience students, on the other hand, will have access to incredible support every step of the way.
This includes weekly LIVE Q&As with me, including help with working on assignments and implementing lessons when needed.
My students will tell you that the personal support I provide is one of their favorite aspects of the BLENDED Family Formula, which is why I highly recommend the Gold Program or VIP Experience.
We've got a 14-day money-back guarantee. If you can show me you've done the work and still feel this isn't for you, I'll refund your money.
The BLENDED Family Formula is definitely NOT just for new stepmoms! I've designed the program to meet you where you are, whether you are a brand new stepmom, and about-to-be stepmom, or a super seasoned stepmom.
Wherever you are, you'll find the tools you need in this program.
This is the first time in over a year that I've opened the doors to the BLENDED Family Formula.
Once the doors close this year, I do not expect to open them again to the public until next year. So the next time you would be able to enroll will be spring of 2023.
Tuition will most likely go up the next time I offer the course. If you're thinking about it, I highly recommend enrolling now.
HOW LONG WILL IT TAKE ME TO START SEEING RESULTS?
The course itself is delivered over six weeks. However, you'll have lessons and tools that you can begin to use -and see results from- immediately!
I'm standing by and am happy to answer questions you have! Just shoot me an email at info@thiscustomlife.com and I'll be happy to touch base with you!
I believe so much in this course, that I'm offering a money-back guarantee within 14 days if you don't feel like the Formula will work for you. Just show me you've done all the work and tell me why you don't think it will work and I'll give you a refund.
You're not the wicked stepmother. And YOU DESERVE to be happy, too!
One more time, here's EVERYTHING you get when you purchase the The BLENDED Family Formula VIP Experience!
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